There are many magical things about marriage. One of them is that it is an intentional choice to merge two lives. Emphasis on intentional.
If the relationship were to end, you know what you're signing up for, and you may have even signed something like a prenuptial agreement to leave no ambiguity.
But when you're not married, and instead enter a de facto marriage -- the break-up process may come as a bit of a shock when it comes to who gets what.
Deborah Chambers KC is one of New Zealand's leading trust, litigation and relationship property lawyers she speaks to Emile Donovan about some of the pitfalls.
(Original Caption) Wedding of Prince Charles and Lady Diana Spencer. Shows the famous kiss on the balcony of Buckingham Palace, after ceremony. Photo: Getty Images/Bettmann
